You might be surprised that there are lots of women that masturbate with sex toys alone, but they never seem to bring them into their sexual relationships with their partners. The most classic sexual position for masturbation and for sex with a partner is usually referred to as the missionary position (we refer to it as the "his"shionary position. There are quite a few women that have a hard time reaching orgasm in the classic missionary position because the penis or phallic sex toy generally does not directly penetrate their g spot area unless they orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone. If you are just beginning to bring a sex toy into the sex with your partner then you might want to start off smaller and a little slower by choosing a basic bullet vibrator or clitoral stimulator.

Generally the position where the partner is behind you penetrating you vaginally from the backside is referred to as doggy style sex. This is usually a sexual position where partners are a little more comfortable and sexually secure with not only themselves but each other. The doggy style position can be very arousing for most women because it gives access to your g spot area if he stimulates the frontal inner area of your vagina. A fun and exciting way to integrate sex toys would be to have your partner insert a lubricated dildo which can be realistic or even better glass for a different cosmic sensation. The more comfortable you are the more advanced you can become with your sex toys. Your partner can also lubricate an anal probe or wand and gradually insert it into your anal cavity for even greater stimulation. There are sex toys that are excellent for dual penetration where they can be inserted anally and vaginally simultaneously.